Sunday, December 18, 2011

I can't breath...

I can't breath....

When I think of my tomorrow and you are no longer there.

I can't breath.

When I wake to find your spot on the bed empty and cold 
because you haven't sleept with me,  like so many years before.

I can't breath.

When I think of cooking your favorite meal and you will
never be here to share it with me. 

I can't breath.

Just the thought of trying to take a breath without 
you here to hold me tight. Without you here to ... make me smile..
to kiss me good morning and good night.

I can't breath....if you are taken from me too soon.  If you are gone,
I am are my breath.....and my life.

My first took my breath away from the moment we meet.  

And without you, I could never breath again. 

Thursday, December 1, 2011


~ Laughter ~

Oh the joy I feel when I hear you laugh.  It makes me want to laugh too.   I smile just thinking of all the funny things we've said, the silly things we've done.  We have expierenced such joy through our laughing, through our innoncent and playful times.  

When you think about how sincere a belly laugh from a baby can be..and how we marvel that the baby would "know" to laugh.  Well, I think that all the baby understands is pure joy and that laughter is the natural way to express the joy and love it feels at that exact moment.  

We expierence that pure joy when we laugh together as well.  We expierence that sincere moment in time when we hold each other and laugh.  Oh how wonderful those sweet moments are.

I wish you laughter in your relationships. I wish you pure joy.  I wish you sincere love.

Wednesday, September 28, 2011

Time Out..

Time Out...

Time rest a while.  To reflect on what life is all about.  Time out to sit and ponder, look at the future and allow our minds to wonder....

Time Out..

Time Out look back and savor the memories. 

Time Out..

Time dream of the future and what we hope it to be.....

Time Out..

To let me 

Tuesday, August 2, 2011

I find in you....I find in me.....I find in us....Eternity.

I find in you, smiles are endless...

I find in you, laughter is contagious...

I find in you, the need to hold your hand... 

I find in you, a billion "i love yous"...

I find in me....I'm better in your presence...

I find in me....the desire to be touched..

I find in me....the giver I was designed to be....

In your presence....I find so much in me...

I find in us....the world is complete...

I find in us...the sun rises and sets...

I find is has no boundries...

I find in us...forever is not long enough... 

I find you and me, a cherished eternity...

Tuesday, July 26, 2011

Love is in the litte things we do...

Love is in the little things we do...

When you bring me up a cup of my favorite coffee...or taking time to sit and drink a cup together.

When I wahs your clothes and iron them....or when you wear the shirt, you know I like.

When you take me out to my favorite place for dinner and let me order whatever I want..

When you write me a poem...or send one that you found and thought about me...

When you buy me little gifts of love...or when you like the gifts of love I give to you..

When you compliment me on my hair or dress..and shine when I give you some "handsome" compliments in return...

When you open the car door for me and close it after I get in...or when you let me drive and never volunteer driving lessons...or opinions..

Love is in the little things we do... 


Saturday, May 14, 2011

As we wonder....

As we wonder through life...and wonder through love...
We will have many changes, to expierence...and many chances, to learn from those expierences. 

As you wonder together, you may face some challenges, these can either bring you closer together or  make you farther apart.  You get to decide. 

   I believe if we open our hearts and minds, 
we shall see, that the challanges don't have to push us apart. 
 That they may actually make our bond even greater.  It's all about choices.

I choose to love you.  I choose to forgive you when you mis~read something I've said or done.
I choose to learn from my own mistakes.  I choose to try to see your point of view.  I choose.

I choose to be understanding.  I choose to be forgiving. I choose to be loving.  I choose.

I choose to wonder through life with you as my friend.  I will laugh at your jokes.  I will smile when I see your smiling face.  I will wipe the tears off your checks when you cry. 
 I will hold you close to me and feel the warmth of your love.  I will stand by your side forever.

 I will cherish my memories as I grow old.  I will look back on these days and be thankful for the chance to say... I chose you to be in my life.

As we wonder...we get to choose...we get to love. 


Monday, April 11, 2011

Love Reigns Foreve in Me...

I awoke and love was there.  Morning birds sang into my bedroom window, as a small breeze gently danced with the curtains. 

I was touched by soft blankets keeping me warm n cozy.  Rising sunshine called me out of bed, wanting me feel it's warmth, breath in the freshness. 

Then once to my window, I smelt the fragrance of my magnolia buds and knew they would soon be in full bloom. 

Awe, surround me in all things . You waken my senses, you feed my soul, you touch me deeply like nothing ever will.

Love reigns forever in me.

Sunday, March 27, 2011

What's Love all about anyway...?

You know we go through life with great expectations. As a little girl, I was gonna meet my prince Charming, fall madly in love, marry and live happily ever after.

 As a teenager, I knew I'd marry, have children, be rich and travel the world over. 

 As a woman....I now have very different expectations.  Today...I dream about walking hand in hand on the beach.  Having late night conversations.  Getting deep about life and what makes us happy.

 As a woman, I am more into making sure my partner is happy.  I want him to feel special.  I want him to know how important he is.  I want him to know my needs and desires.

 Love is a part of this lifestyle.  But, it's not everything.  What I'm finding out as I go through this next stage of my life is that we need to have so much more to base our relationship on...besides love.

   My goals and dreams should match up to his.  We are exploring new avenue's together as we journey down new roads.  We are asking each other more questions.  We are offering better answers than ever before.  We are talking...sharing...opening up to more conversations.

Our passion is growing in new ways as we share our needs.  My desires are at a new level, as my libido climbs higher mountains .  Romance is back in style.  I need to be touched more.  I need to be kissed..and kissed and yes, kissed some more.  Hold me close, let me feel your body tightly wrapped in mine.  Caress me with your words of love and adoration.  Wink at me from across the room, let me catch your smile of appreciation.  Whisper words of tender moments waiting to happen.  Their is a fire burning deeply in me and needs to be doused my midnight.   Wake me up with your smile as we spoon to the sunrise.  Let me explore your happy places as we cuddle in the morning.  As the day goes by, lets run and laugh.  Let's eat and play.  Let's joke and tease.  Let's dance and sing.

For this is what we get to do as we enjoy this next part of our life.  This is living the dream.  This is happiness.  This is tenderness. This my truly what Love is all about. 

Tuesday, March 15, 2011

Whisper softly in my ear...

You hear the birds singing to one another, the songs of love and adoration.  Our love Doves were the best at sharing their love songs.  Prince Charming would coo softly to Snow White...cacoo cacoo and she would respond with a more verbal only the sounds that love doves can make.

The birds are the first thing we hear in the morning,s as we open our windows to let spring slowly in. They share that warmer days are apon us.  That love is in the air.

Whisper softly in my ear.  Share with me what your heart desires.  Words are the window to my soul.  You reach me with your speak to my mind.

As I whisper back, I tell you what I know you want to hear.  My language soft, sweet and full of seduction.  I give in to you that which I know your heart desires.  I hear your needs and wish to fulfill.  The lover in me needs to be set free.  I am on fire. Quench my thirst and dowse me with your love. 

So Whisper softly in my ear....and let me indulge in your every whim....for it will be my pleasure. 

Wednesday, February 23, 2011

Follow your Heart today...

Follow your Heart today...

For your heart will lead you to what's most important to you at this moment in time.  Your heart will  guide you to all that you want and desire.  We all have hopes and dreams when it comes to our love life.   What is it that you are truly wanting?  What is your passion? What is your desire?  

If you know what you want..then that's the first step towards your goal.  When you have a clear focus to what makes your heart sing..then you can work towards that goal.

Our love life is important, so why not make it a priority.   Think of what you know they would love and then make plans to do it for them.   Think of what you would appreciate in return and plant those seeds in your lovers life. 

Making those we love, feel like they are our "one in a million" is so important.  Make them feel special.  Shower them with your love.

Follow your Heart today..... 

Monday, February 7, 2011

I believe in love...

I believe in love... 
I believe in a love so strong that it endures the test of time. A love so deep that even the deepest oceans feel it's warmth. A love so passionate that even the largest tidal wave cannot crush it's power. I believe in love...

I believe love wraps you in his arms and holds you till you die. I believe love hears your sighs and strengthens when you cry. I believe when love is tested, that in the end, love always wins. I believe in love...

I believe that when you love, you easily forgive.  That when you love, your smiles are more genuine.  That when you love, your happiness is over flowing. That when you love, your whole body shows your love.  I believe in love...

I believe in loving forever, that nothing could ever stop your love from existing.
 That nothing can take away the love you freely give.  I believe that love heals your broken heart and can mend the hearts of millions...yes, I believe in love...

I believe in an unconditional love....yes it does exist. A love so pure and musical that even Cupid stops to listen.  A love so wholesome that your side aches from wanting.  A love so empowering that it brings you to your knees. I believe in love...

I believe in love...

Yes, I do believe in love. 

Thursday, January 27, 2011

Tell me that you'll love me forever...

Tell me that you'll love me forever.

Hold me tenderly in your arms.  Kiss me passionately. Reach out to touch me ever so softly. Let's laugh and play.  Let's tease a bit. 

 Flirt with me and entice me with your sweet words. Show me with your appreciative eyes that you think I'm beautiful. 

 I need to hear your words.  I need to know that I'm the one who turns you on.  I need you to whisper in my ear, all your wants and desires for me.

Share your dreams with me.  Share your heart. Share you life with me.

Tell me that you'll love me forever. 

Monday, January 24, 2011

passion...and more passion.

I've had the opportunity to listen to some very interesting conversations lately from some of my girlfriends.  The main topic..passion.  As a woman in her 40's girlfriends and I discuss many topics that were once, taboo.  We now talk about what we want and need in our partners.  We know now...after being around the block a time or two....what turns us on.  

What do we want? We want our partner to be "in" to us.  We want a night of sweet romance and unbridled passion.  Is that too much to ask for?   We want great sex.  Is that too much to ask for?  We want lots of foreplay and kissing.  We want to be held...touched....kissed...devoured...loved. 

We want to know that your just as excited to be in the bedroom as we are.  When we walk into the room and take our clothes off for you and have you admire and appreciate what we have to offer.  We wanna give to you...and have you give to us in return.  We want a hot smokin night.  We want lovin that is passionate and hot.  We want to feel like we are the most beautiful woman in the world and.  We want to feel like no other woman can make you feel as good as we make you feel.  

We wanna be special is so many ways. the bedroom...we wanna know that we take the cake.  Tell us we are beautiful.  Tell us we are special.  Tell us that we are your shining star. Tell us that we are your "one in a million" lover.

Passion and romance....ahhh. 

Tuesday, January 11, 2011

The Power of Touch...

His hand reached out, to ever so softly touch mine.  Gentle at first, then playfully holding my hand in his, caressing my palms.  His touch sent a tingling down my spine to my toes.  I should be used to his him holding my hand..and yet it still surprises me how good it feels to be touched by him.

We are walking hand in hand..strolling along on the sidewalk...enjoying the beauty of the day. Talking, sharing, laughing and yes, touching.

As our walk ends...we sit outside and enjoy the sunshine.  Sitting very close to each other, i once again am reminded how great it feels to be near be have his leg brush mine as we are enjoying this moment in time.  Our time.

I feel the urge to go inside with seek out privacy of closed doors....I want him to touch me again and again.   Ahhh...and just as equally, I desire to touch him.  To feel his skin on mine. Such power in our touch.  Such passion.  We were designed to be be kissed and be touched. 

Can you imagine being touched lovingly every day for the rest of your life.

Friday, January 7, 2011

Kissing....Kissing and ahhh...more Kissing...

Shut up and kiss me!

Laughing....kissing is such fun!  It makes me happy, it gives us joy.  There are many ways to kiss and many reasons to kiss.  But, for my blog....I'm gonna talk about the passionate and romantic kisses.

When I first feel in love, I was 16 years old.  I had kissed a few toads, but then found my prince charming.  He was only 15.   That attraction was immense.  Then came his sweet 16th birthday and time for me to kiss him.  Awkward at first, yea.  Sweet...yes.  Exciting...very!  A kiss is not "just a kiss" when their is so much behind it.  In those first few months, we spent hours every week practicing and perfecting our kisses. 

 That's all we did, believe it or not.  We kissed and kissed. 
 It made our passion grow....for three and half years and we sealed our life together with our wedding kiss. Thirty-one years later....we are still kissing.

 I was talking to my girlfriend last night and she shared about her first kiss to her sweetheart. They had been talking, writing, sharing..getting to know each other long distance and after a year of this they finally meet and go out on a date.  Here is what she shared in her own words:

I first met him at the "Granite City" restaurant in Davenport. My sister, took me over there to meet him for the first time since High School. Sooooo...Initially, all we could do was hug or rather embrace each other in front of her. After she left, we went into the bar and got some drinks. I couldn't take it anymore so I said to him, "Come over here and kiss me!". He did, and we kissed and kissed and kissed, right there in front of everyone! 

I laughed and shared in her joy as she told about their first kiss. 

 "Making out", what we still call it the prelude to making love.  It gets our juices flowing.  It puts us in the mood.  When our lips meet softly at first, tenderly, sends shivers down our spine. Our minds run wild as our bodies react.  Then the tongues meet and that makes the passion peak. His soft, wet lips devouring mine... French kissing.  How did it ever get that term? The oneness we feel as we share that deep of a kiss.  It's a lovers kiss for sure.  It awakens our whole body.  It makes us tremble and shake with anticipation at what could lie ahead.

Are you still kissing? Tell me about your best kiss memory....or your favorite kiss. Do you place kissing in as high of a standard as you used too?  Do you think kissing is important?

I wish you many kisses....playful ones..... soft, sweet ones.... passionate and romantic ones.

Thursday, January 6, 2011

Friends in your life..

Friends in your life are so very important...

My dearest and bestest friends...  You offer so much to who I am. You complete me as a person.  In my life, I have been blessed with the greatest of friends.  We surround ourselves with people who will lift us up. We associate with like minded people. We learn from each other.  We support each other in all our endeavors. We grow together.  We share. 

Sometimes, our sharing isn't always good.  Sometimes we have to make difficult decisions. Sometimes the advice we offer isn't exactly what they wanted to hear, but what they needed to hear.  We love them softly through hard times.  We are a shoulder to cry on, a listening ear, a secret keeper.

Friends in life are so very important...

They help your dreams come true.  They praise you when you've accomplished a goal.  They stand right next to you when the rest of the world hides in the shadows.  When you grow, they grow.  They are excited to see you succeed.  

 Friends in your life are so very important....

I had a friend once say "you know your true friends, when they show up to help you move..."  Yes, true friends will be there to lift your heavy furniture.  They will cry when you move away.  They will support your goals, your hopes, your dreams.  

They will last forever.  True friends.  They will hold a soft spot in your heart til you take your last breath.  They will be the ones holding you hands as you grow old and feeble. 

May you be my lasting friend forever.  May we grow old while holding each others hand.  May we always remember to share our love.  May we wish each other all the best in love and romance.   

To my Forever Friends... 

Wednesday, January 5, 2011

Wednesday.....a wonderful day for showing love.

It's Wednesday...a wonderful day for showing love.  And why not?  Why not pick any day or everyday of the week to show love.  And how does that go, anyway?  Well... what comes to my mind,  first is in our caring ways...our manners.

Being polite to the love in your life. It only takes a minute to offer a hand in a task that he or she is doing. It only takes a second to send a text saying "love you".  It takes a few more minutes for a phone call to ask how their day is going.  It takes some creativity to do more extra stuffs, like cards, gifts, poems, letters, surprises. 

Those take your love to a more romantic level.  So, you've never been romantic? No big deal. He or she wont know how to react?  No worries.  Just because you haven't been romantic in the past, is no reason you can't start now.
 They will love you for trying, for your effort.  It may seem awkward at first, but after a while, it will become a fun and great way to share your love.  

"Give me a suggestion Kimmie".  What I told one friend, is start simple.
 A piece of white paper with your note of: I hope your day was half as wonderful as you are..and then signed and left of the kitchen table. 

 Keep it real, keep it true to who you are.
Don't try to be Don won de marko...unless you can pull that off. LOL

Love and Passion should be heartfelt and honest. 
 It can be extravagant, elegant or simply playful and fun.

Enjoy your passion/romance today...i can't wait to hear all about it.


Tuesday, January 4, 2011

Happiness begins with me...

Am I happy? If not, I need to find my happiness. It begins with me. I cannot or should not expect anyone else to "make" me happy. My happiness begins with me and no one else. I am in charge of my own joy.  I know, sometimes that's easier said than done.  We live in a world where we want those in our lives to make us happy. 

Go back to when you were last happiest.  What was the key ingredient to that time in your life?  What would be your idea of happiness today?  What do you delight in?  Where does your joy come from?

Find the answers to those questions. Take your time and research your answers.  You are worthy of a long life filled with joy.  Your inner peace will come and contentment will fill your heart as well.

Once you are living a joy filled life, then you can offer love and happiness to those around you.  Then you can find ways to share the passion and romance with the one you love. 

It's starts with you first. Become the best you.  I'm growing too...I want this to be my best year yet.  I want to love more.  I want to share more from my heart. I want to see you grow and become all that your meant to be.

  Will i ask too much of you? Maybe at times, it may seem so.  Will i expect much, it may seem so.  Will i challenge you to stretch yourself, it may seem so as well.  Will i encourage you to dig deep within your heart to grow and learn.....always.  

When i see and read and hear of your happiness and love...i know that I have done my job here on earth.  For I truly believe that God created me to bring love and joy to others.   To offer sunshine, to encourage growth, and above all to give love.

Monday, January 3, 2011

How do I make him feel more loved?

Monday, Monday...da daaa, da da daaa..

What can i do to make him feel more loved?  Well, it's starts with knowing his love language.  Yes, I have read the book "The Five Love Languages" by Gary Chapman.  So, because i know what it is that makes him happy, I can choose to do those things for him. 

 What is your "love language", what is theirs?  Do you know?  And just as importantly...if you don't know, then do you care to learn?   How much effort are you willing to put into your relationship? 

I desire passion and romance, so to get it in my life...I need to give it wholeheartedly and without reservation or complaint.  Woman call me almost daily and are frustrated as to why their love lives are not more exciting.  

One of the first things I ask them is:  What are you doing to make him/her.. feel loved and desired? From there the conversation takes off and they share and share.

As my blog grows, I hope you will learn more about yourself as well as your partner.  If you truly want to make the most of your love life, then be open to reading, learning and at times...sharing. 

One thing I've learned is that I have many faults....I'm not perfect and never expect my friends and readers to be either.  This is real life here.  I know I will make mistakes as I journey to be a better woman, a better partner, a more romantic and passionate lover. 

I'm glad you've chose to make this journey with me. 

Sunday, January 2, 2011

As we go through life...

As we go through life....we will have our ups and downs. Relationships aren't always pretty.
We will have arguments and "not so happy" moments. 

 Today...when a tense moment happened, I let it go. Sometimes it's best to let them vent.
 We are all allowed to be ourselves when around those we love, right.  So, you know,
loving someone, means accepting them where their at.  Some-days, "where their at" can
be uncomfortable for us.  It can be challenging or frustrating. But,
if we love them...then we love them through whatever it 
is that is bothering them. 

Love and romance happen even on these difficult days. Reaching your hand 
over to take theirs can offer a calmness.  Looking over and 
smiling or maybe a soft wink, so as to's okay...this too shall pass. Offering
a hug when the time is right...or just being with them in silence.

You need to find what it takes to sooth your partner.  As the
giver, I am always looking for ways to make them 
feel better about their situation.  It's not about you, let them 
share, give them permission to open up
more often and they will.  

Romance doesn't just start and end in the
bedroom.  It's the way we treat each other all day long. It's
about respect and acceptance. 

May you love them unconditionally. Yes, it is possible.
Open your heart up, you'll be amazed at how 
much room you have, to truly love.