Monday, January 3, 2011

How do I make him feel more loved?

Monday, Monday...da daaa, da da daaa..

What can i do to make him feel more loved?  Well, it's starts with knowing his love language.  Yes, I have read the book "The Five Love Languages" by Gary Chapman.  So, because i know what it is that makes him happy, I can choose to do those things for him. 

 What is your "love language", what is theirs?  Do you know?  And just as importantly...if you don't know, then do you care to learn?   How much effort are you willing to put into your relationship? 

I desire passion and romance, so to get it in my life...I need to give it wholeheartedly and without reservation or complaint.  Woman call me almost daily and are frustrated as to why their love lives are not more exciting.  

One of the first things I ask them is:  What are you doing to make him/her.. feel loved and desired? From there the conversation takes off and they share and share.

As my blog grows, I hope you will learn more about yourself as well as your partner.  If you truly want to make the most of your love life, then be open to reading, learning and at times...sharing. 

One thing I've learned is that I have many faults....I'm not perfect and never expect my friends and readers to be either.  This is real life here.  I know I will make mistakes as I journey to be a better woman, a better partner, a more romantic and passionate lover. 

I'm glad you've chose to make this journey with me. 

5 comments:

  1. Looking forward to reading more from you. One of my goals this year is to be more of a loving partner.

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  2. I love this, it's an awesome expression of desire, passion, and romance. Looking to travel the journey with you...

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  3. Loved you post and thanks so much for your visit. I have always had dogs but these three are out there!! lol. Your Lab seems like a real sweeti!

    Take care...

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  4. As for me, I am living in a different world, My partner and I have lack of communication, so it is a little hard for me to understand what his needs and desires, and he does not aware of my needs and desires, so I guess we are an opposite partner but as long as we get along, then it is fine with me

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  5. thank-you for sharing. i think your man is very lucky. He has a woman who makes it a goal to "please" him. very lucky man.

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